Nga Mahi, Nga Mahi, me Te Mahinga Motuhake
He aha te mea motuhake mo te kotiro honore? Ka whai whakaaro te tangata ki te whakaaro ko te kotiro o te honore he wahine kaha, he rangatira rangatira, engari ko te kotiro honore he maha nga mahi motuhake i tua atu i etahi painga motuhake. Ko te kotiro honore ko te tautoko matua o te wahine marena hou, i mua, i muri i te marena.
He aha te mahi a tetahi kotiro whakahonore?
- Ko te kotiro honore e awhina i te wahine marena hou ki te whakamahere marena, te whakatau whakatau me te whakawhiti i nga raruraru o te whanau me era atu wero.
- Ko te kotiro o te honore te kawenga mo te upoko o nga wahine marena, me te whakarite kia whakaritea.
- Ko te tikanga, ko te kotiro o te honore e arahi ana i nga wahine marena ki te whakamahere i te wai marena mo te marena, me te nuinga o te waa bachelorette.
- I te ra o te marena, ka awhina te kotiro o te honore i te wahine marena hou ka mau kakahu ka noho marie.
- I te nuinga o nga wa, ka mahi te kotiro o te honore i te toast, i te korero ranei i te marena ranei, i te kai hakari ranei.
- Ko nga wahine e marena ana i te ture i roto i te United States ka tono pinepine ki te kotiro honore hei tetahi o nga kaitohu o te raihana marena.
- Mahalo ko e me'a mahu'inga taha, ko e tama'iiki faka'apa'apa ko ha tokotaha fanongo lelei pea'oku'i ai ha va'inga mālohi ki he fefiné ke nau toki atu.
Ko wai me whiriwhiri mo te kotiro whakahonore?
I te tikanga, ka tono te wahine marena ki tana tuahine, ki tana hoa wahine tata tonu hei wahine mo te honore. I nga waahi kaore e taea, ka taea e te wahine marena te whiriwhiri i tetahi tangata e whakawhirinaki ana ki a ia hei kotiro honore, ka awhina ia ia i te wa o te whakamahere marena.
I te whiriwhiri i to kotiro honore, whakaarohia te nui o te kawenga e whai mana ana, me te whakarite kia taea e ratou te whakatutuki i enei tumanakohanga. Ka hiahia pea koe ki te titiro atu ki a wai ka mahi i te mahi pai, ma te tiaki i te whanau, me te haere tonu me te kore utu-kore, te koree.
Ka taea e te tane te wahine hei whakahonore?
Ae, ka taea e te tangata te waiho hei kotiro honore i roto i te marena.
Ina he tane te hoa tata rawa o te wahine, he mea tika kia waiho ia hei tangata e whakawhirinaki ana ki tana whakamahere marena, me te hiahia ki te whakahonore i taua kawenga. Heoi ano, ka hiahia pea koe ki te whakaaro me pehea ka hurihia ai nga mahi tuku iho-whakawhitinga, penei i te wai mo te wahine marena me te roopu bachelorette. Ko te wahine marena hou me te kotiro honore hei whakatau i nga mea e hiahiatia ana kia whakauruhia ki nga taha katoa.
He Mema Haapii Te Tiwhi Tangata kia Taehia Te Wahine Tiaki?
Ahakoa he wahine koe, he hoa pai rawa ranei, i etahi wa ko te kupu "kotiro o te honore" he mea ke. Engari i te kupu "kotiro o te honore", ka taea te karanga i tenei mahi, "te honore honore o te wahine marena hou", ahakoa te aroha, "te taha o te wahine marena hou." Mena kua whiriwhiria he wahine marena, kua karangatia e ia "te matron o te honore." Kei te waatea ki te kimi i te wa e pai ana ki te whakaahuatanga o to wahine rangatira.