Whakahauhia ahau, engari he mea au hei korero
Ko te raruraru ko te mea kino ki te mahi . Ko te tikanga, ko te nuinga o te wa e pakaru ana i te korerorero, te whakararuraru ranei i tetahi tangata ina korero ana, kaore i te tūtohutia, engari he mea e kii ana ki te korero.
Ahea te Takahuri
Mena he raruraru, kei te korero te tangata i tetahi mea e mohio ana koe he hē, kei te kohukohu te rōpū mo te tangata kahore i reira, kaore ranei he take ke atu hei whakamutu i te matapaki, ka taea e koe te awangawanga i te wa e mahi ana koe i runga i te tikanga.
Ko te mohio ki te wa me te aha o te awangawanga he mea nui ki te hiahia koe kia kite etahi atu ia koe he tangata whakahirahira , he atawhai, he whakaaro, he tangata whai mana.
Kāore e taea te tiki te kupu
Ko tetahi atu take hei awangawanga he pea he wa ke atu tetahi atu korero. Ko nga whakawhitinga korero me whakauru nga tangata katoa i roto i te roopu, engari he hunga etahi e kore e tuku atu i etahi atu ki te korero. Mena te huarahi anake ka taea e koe te korero, tatari mo te tangata kia hopu i tana manawa, ka korero.
Kaua e waiho te tangata e whakahaere ana i te korerorero. Ko te whakawhitiwhitiwhiti korero pai ko te whakauru kaha ki te korero me te mohio ki te waahi. A, no te wa ki te whakarongo, mutu te korero engari kimihia nga whai wāhitanga ki te whakawhiti ki nga uiui, ki nga korero poto ranei.
Ngā tohutohu mo te Whakaae i te Whakawhitiwhitinga
- Whakaritea he kaupapa motuhake. Ahakoa kei te peke koe ki etahi atu korero a te iwi ranei, kei te whakamutu ranei koe i te korero a tetahi tangata, he mea nui kia whai take koe mo te mahi me te kaha ki te whakawhiti i taua korero ki te tangata e korero ana. Whakahuahia te kaupapa i te wa poto.
- Whakamahia te wa tika. He pai ki te tatari kia mutu te korero a te tangata ki te hopu i te manawa i mua i te korero.
- Kia pai kia taea. Korero korero i nga wa katoa, me te timata i te korerorero me te whakatairanga i te whakatairanga mo to whainga. Ko etahi o nga mea e taea ana e koe te ki penei, "Tukua ahau," "Me korero au i konei," "E mahara ana mehemea kei te awangawanga au?" He whakaaro toku e pa ana ki nga korero i kiia e koe, "" E hiahia ana ahau ki te tapiri i tetahi mea ki tera, "ranei" E inoi ana ahau kia murua, engari me korero au. "
- Whakamahia he tohu. Mena kaore i mohiohia to korero, kia ara ake te ringa, kia pai ranei te kanohi ki te aro ki te aro o te tangata. Kaua rawa e paheke. Ki te hanga koe i to tohu, ka taea e koe te ki atu, "Tukua ahau mo te haumaru. Ka pupuri ahau i tenei waahanga." Na ka korero i nga mea e hiahia ana koe ki te korero wawe wawe kia taea ai e ratou te hoki mai ki a raatau korero.
- Mukua tou korokoro. Ko tenei pea ka huri nga upoko i to huarahi. Whakamahia tena ki te korero i nga mea katoa e hiahia ana koe ki te korero.
- Kia mau ki te tawhiti tawhiti ka kite i te whakawhitinga korero a tetahi atu. Mena ka haere tika koe ki te hunga e korero ana, kei te hiahia koe ki te whakarongo anake. Whakahokihia he iti ka titiro kanohi koe ki te whakaatu ko te waahanga o ta raatau korero ehara i te mea e hiahia ana koe.
- Whakamahia te whakamarama. I a koe i roto i te hui pakihi, komiti ranei , me te korerorero kei te haere i roto i tetahi huarahi kaore pea koe e mohio ki etahi atu, he pai ki te awangawanga kia whiwhi whakamutu. Ka miharo koe na te tokomaha e whakawhetai ki a koe i muri mai. Kaore pea e mohio ana etahi atu kaore pea.
- Mauruuru atu ki etahi atu mo te tuku ia koe ki te awangawanga. I muri i to korero koe he aha kei roto i to hinengaro, whakaatuhia to mau mihi mo etahi atu e tuku ana ki a koe ki te korero.
- A, no te timata te tangata ki te tawai, ka taea e koe te awangawanga i tetahi waa kia mutu ai i roto i ona huarahi. Ko tetahi o nga wa tino nui ki te whakakore i te whakawhitinga korero ko te wa ka huri ki te pakaru ka korero i te tangata kaore i te waahi , kaore ranei i te tawai ki tetahi. Mena kei te haere tonu koe ki te whakarongo, ahakoa kaore koe e korero i tetahi kupu, kei te uru koe me te akiaki i tenei ahua. A ko nga raruraru, kaore koe i te taha o enei iwi, kei te kohukohu koe mo a koe. Te korero korero me te huri i te kaupapa. Mena kaore i kitea te tohu, ka taea e koe te mea, "Kaore au e korero ki a ia inaore ia i konei ki te tiaki ia ia." Ki te haere tonu, haere.