Ko nga huarahi whaihua ki te Whakauru i te Whakaritenga Marena o tetahi Mea Kua Taea
Hei whakatutuki i te tikanga marena o "tetahi mea kua nama" ka taea e koe te tono mo te nama o tetahi mea tawhito. Engari i nga wa o mua, ko te wahine marena hou e "peanatia" te koa o te wahine marena hou he pai te marena me te angitu ma te tango i tetahi mea mo te marena. Na ki te whakarite i tenei korero tuku iho, tino whakaarohia, ko wai koe e mohio ana kei te tino marena te marena. Ina tono koe mo te nama, kia mohio koe he aha koe i whiriwhiri ai i taua tangata, me te aha o to marena ki a koe.
Ko nga Mahinga Whakauru mo te "Tangata Rawa"
- Ko te hipoki o tou whaea, o to tupuna ranei, ko te kakahu marena . Ae, he tohu tenei, engari he pai rawa. Mena kei te koa tonu o ou matua me nga tupuna kei te marena, utua ki a ratau ma te taatai i nga mea e mau ana. Ka taea e koe te whakahou ake i nga raina me te whakatairanga, me te kakahu ano kia rite ki te tirohanga o te waina.
- Te rua o te waimarie na roto i te kakahu i te "penny waimarie", i te onopence ranei kua mau tetahi atu wahine marena i roto i tona hu i tana ra marena. He maha nga marena e whiriwhiri ana kia tuhia te pene ki raro o to raanei mo nga kaupapa whakamarie, engari kia mau ki te haumaru kia taea ai e koe te whakahoki mai i to nama nama!
- Mena he maha nga mokopuna i roto i te whanau, whakaarohia te wehea o te kakahu marena o te tupuna. Ka taea e nga mokopuna katoa te "nama" etahi o te rotaroki, ka haukama ranei, ka whakauru ki roto ki o raanei marena. Mena kaore e mahi ana nga taipitopito i to kakahu, ka taea te maka ki roto ki to makawe, ki te tipu ranei, ki te kakahu ranei i tetahi wahi huna.
- Mena kua namahia e koe he pukapuka marena me tetahi wahanga o te marena ma te hoa hoa, ma te marena ranei o te hapu, hangaia hei mea e kakahu ana koe. Tangohia to raina pai ki a koe, ki te whakairihia ki runga i te peeraka, ki roto ranei i te whitiki o to kakahu. He tino pai tenei ki te korero pono te korero mo te aha o to marena e whakatairanga ana ia koe.
- Kaore he take e kii mai ana tetahi mea mai i tetahi wahine. Mena he pai te marena o to papa ki a koe, me tango i tana pukeneka, whakauruhia he hononga ki roto ki to taangata, ki te here ranei i tetahi here ki o makawe. Ka taea hoki e koe te whakamahi i tana here marena, i tetahi whaahoa poipoia pai ki te whakairi i to hua. Ki te mea he kaiwhaiwhai ia, ka taea e tana mahinga peara peera nga painga ataahua ki to kakahu. Na, mehemea ko koe he wahine marena hou e mau ana i te kakahu, i te tane ranei, he tino nui nga huarahi ki te tango i tetahi mea mai i to papa, papa ranei.
- Mena kei te marena koe i te hotoke, he pai te tahae o to tupuna tupuna, ka tapiritia ano he kiore vintage. Ko etahi o nga wahine marena e whiriwhiri ana ki te kakahu i te muka kaore i te kawe i te kai. A, ki te kore te huruhuru he mea ki a koe, whakaarohia te korou o tou tupuna, te huruhuru hipi, me etahi atu huarahi hei whakamahana i roto i to kakahu marena hotoke. Ka taea e koe te korero ko koe kei te whakakii pono koe i roto i te mahana o te marena o to tupuna.
- Whakahonorehia nga whakatupuranga i te mea kua paahua taau tupuna mai i to tupuna tupuna, he mea puru mai i to tupuna tupuna, me a koe mea kua nama mai i to mama. He huarahi tino ataahua tenei ki te whakanui i tetahi matua kua mate ranei, i to maanatanga ranei .
Ko nga mea katoa e nama ana koe, kia tino ki te maumahara ki a koe. Whakaarohia te tangata nana i tuku atu ki a koe ina tuhia e koe, a ka whakaarohia he aha te tikanga o to whanaungatanga ki a koe. Ma te ahua o te whakaaro i muri ia koe, he tino waimarie koe i to ra marena.