Engari Kaua e Whakanuia, Tiaki ranei, Whakamahia enei tohutohu
Ko te nuinga o te wa, ka pänui koe ki te mahi ki tetahi hoa tata kino , tae atu ki te pehea e matapaki ai i nga raruraru me te hoa tata tino pakeke.
Engari, mehemea ko koe te hoa "kino"? Ko te tikanga, kaore pea koe i te kino rawa, engari kaore pea koe e mahi i tetahi mea e riri ana i tetahi atu tangata i roto i to whare.
Ko nga tohutohu mo te wa e tae mai ai te Kaipupuri Taha ki te Whakamutua
Anei etahi tohu i runga i te pehea e pa ana ki a koe mehemea ka haere mai to hoa tata ki to whare kaainga ki te amuamu:
Ngana kia kaua e Whakanuia
Ki tetahi waimarie, ka kaha te mahi a to hoa ki te whakaatu ia ia ki a koe. Mena koinei te take, kaore e hiahiatia te whakawhitiwhiti korero ki te whakawhiti.
I tetahi atu ringa, mehemea ka awhina wawe te hoa tata ki a koe ki te tawai ki a koe, kaore hoki koe e tango i te kiore. Engari ki te tangi, me te ata whakaaro, hei tauira, "E koa ana ahau ki te korerorero ki a koe, engari kaore ahau e kite he aha e tika ana kia hamama," ranei "E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakarongo ki a koe, engari e mahara ana au Ka nui ake te hua ki te whai korero. "
Kaore i te whakaoti i nga tautohetohe a nga hoa, na te mea pai ki te tango i te huarahi nui, me te noho tonu me te whai whakaaro. Ehara i te mea ko te titiro me te pai ake o te kore e pai ake, engari ka piki ake nga tupono ki te whakaoti i te raruraru, kaore ano i te whakawhanaunga atu ki nga hoa tata.
Whakarongo me Whakaatu Kia Marama koe ki te Rangatira
No te mea ko to hoa tata te tangata i whakatata mai ki a koe, me korero ki to hoa.
Mena kaore koe e mohio ana ki te raruraru, mehemea kei te hiahia koe ki etahi atu korero, uiui.
Ahakoa e whakarongo ana koe ki to hoa, ngana ki te whakauru ia koe ki roto i ona hu. Ano, tuku atu tetahi korero ki to hoa tata ka awhina ki te whakamarama i hea koe e haere mai ana. Hei tauira, ki te amuamu o to hoa mo te waiata puoro, engari e whakapono ana koe kei te whakatangitangi koe i nga waiata i te roopu tika, ka taea e koe te whakaatu i tenei me te korero kaore koe i mohio ko nga pakitara he mea kikokore.
Te ataata
Ki te utua e te hoa tata he haerenga kore ka whakamohio koe ki tetahi raruraru e kiihia ana e koe, he mea taiao te whakaaro ki te tiaki me te kore ataata. Engari ko te ataata ka awhina i te korero i roto i te waahi pai, whai hua. Ka kite koe i to hoa ka ataata koe, ka pai ake te ahuareka, ka ataata ano ia, ka awhina i te awangawanga o te raruraru.
Whakamātauria ki te Whakatikatika ki te Rongo Maatauranga ki te Rangatira
I etahi wa, he iti, he whakarereketanga korekore i roto i taau whanonga, i ou tikanga ranei, ko nga mea katoa e hiahiatia ana hei whakaoti rapanga. Hei tauira, ki te amuamu o to hoa noho tata ki a koe i nga po katoa ka hoki mai koe ki te whare ki te korero nui i runga i to waea waea, ka whakaara ake i tana tamaiti, ka taea e koe te whakaoti i te raruraru ma te korero maru a ka whakatata atu koe ki to whare kaainga ka karanga ranei i te wa rere ke . Mena he mea taimaha te tatau o to whare, ka pai te kati me te hoa tata ki a koe ka tukua e koe te tatau ki a koe i te po, ka hiahia koe kia iti te tiaki ki a koe.
Kaua e Whakaritea Nga Whakaaetanga Kaore E Tiakina
Ka rite ki te korero i runga ake nei, ko te huarahi ki te whakatutuki i te amuamu o te hoa tata he maamaa me tetahi mea ka taea e koe te whakatinana wawe. Engari ko nga take nui atu kaore pea he whakautu ngawari.
Hei tauira, ka takahia e tetahi hoa ki te amuamu mo te ngangau i muri i to raatau hoko i tetahi piana hou mo to whare .
Kia maumahara e kore koe e whai ki te whakaoti i tetahi take i taua whakawhitinga korero tuatahi ki to hoa. Mena ka kaha koe ki te mahi pera, ka taea e koe anake te korero ki a koe kaore e taea e koe te pupuri, ka waiho noa iho te raru i te kino.
No reira, kaua e wehi ki te mutu i tetahi korero ma te korero ki to hoa tata tetahi mea e pa ana, "E rongo ana au ki nga mea katoa e korero ana koe, me whakaaro ki tenei, ka korero ano." Mena ka kore e taea e to hoa tata te whakautu i tetahi whakautu, kaore pea ia e mohio ana kei te mohio koe ki tana raruraru, kei te korero hoki ia.